It's very nice from u to make the strange visitor feel like a member of the family, but it's really to hard to the member of the family to consider him self a strange visitor.
He might do that to escape from a certain responsibility, or to avoid talking in specified matters which form a barbed case.
In both of these two points he chooses the negative solution, or in a better word the most negative solution.
But we may be mistaken in accusing him. May be he did that to keep the family happy,, or to keep her away from his refusal, but they did need his opinion his point of view as a member as a part of this unit.
Sometimes we live in a conflict because of this part's silence, but I am sure that if this member was really caring, he must be living in the same conflict, struggling to make this family happy and satisfied, and fighting to make his self relay to others needs.
But the disaster lies in being stubborn, obi stained, or opinionated, here is the real problem, coz in this case we won't find an answer to any faced obstacle, and the silence collided with the longing to the answer, but in vain, no answer no solution no replay, each side keep his opinion in himself, avoiding and clash, and satisfied with this gray area where both of them standing in
.im sure that half of the reader didn't understand my words, but I am sure that each one will face a similar situation, when he wait an opinion from a trusted person, and get shocked from his silence, then make sure that this silence hides millions of thoughts, feelings and opinions.
He might do that to escape from a certain responsibility, or to avoid talking in specified matters which form a barbed case.
In both of these two points he chooses the negative solution, or in a better word the most negative solution.
But we may be mistaken in accusing him. May be he did that to keep the family happy,, or to keep her away from his refusal, but they did need his opinion his point of view as a member as a part of this unit.
Sometimes we live in a conflict because of this part's silence, but I am sure that if this member was really caring, he must be living in the same conflict, struggling to make this family happy and satisfied, and fighting to make his self relay to others needs.
But the disaster lies in being stubborn, obi stained, or opinionated, here is the real problem, coz in this case we won't find an answer to any faced obstacle, and the silence collided with the longing to the answer, but in vain, no answer no solution no replay, each side keep his opinion in himself, avoiding and clash, and satisfied with this gray area where both of them standing in
.im sure that half of the reader didn't understand my words, but I am sure that each one will face a similar situation, when he wait an opinion from a trusted person, and get shocked from his silence, then make sure that this silence hides millions of thoughts, feelings and opinions.
4 comments:
Mysterious
hia mysterious ,,bas one day u will feel it
ana 2arabt afham el 7ewar
w wade7 en el mawdoo3 keber
bas howa eh ba2a ??????
dear salma you words are really deep and portrayes a real situatio that any one may face in his /her life.its hard to be negative and at the same time its hard ro be positive.silence may meke some one run away but it makes the others feel it especially if the others are parts of his own family.also to be positive may rise a conflictbut i think in both situations there is a conflict inner or outer
go on palll u can do it!!!
urs oma
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